Embracing Nomadism: My Life Beyond Four Walls
By Joe
I rarely go home. Not because I don't need rest, but because I've designed my schedule to avoid going home.
When I lived in an apartment, I would wake up before 8 AM, head to the library, and work remotely until 5 PM.
Tennis at 5, followed by dinner and then some dancing at night. Afterward, I'd squeeze in some piano practice.
That was my routine.
I only went home when I needed to sleep or have sex.
In such cases, why would I even need a permanent roof over my head?
Personal Growth
Focusing on your personal growth is crucial, especially in your 20s.
While living in my apartment, I realized I could easily go back and do nothing.
But time is precious. Your 20s fly by faster than you imagine.
Why would I want to spend my time confined within four walls instead of actively living my life?
I've played tennis for 8 years and piano for 2 years.
Eventually, I felt stuck, unable to progress to the next level.
Given the choice, I'd opt for enhanced tennis and piano skills over a stationary home life.
Once I understood what I wanted and what made me happy, living out of a car became the optimal choice for me.
I hired a D1 tennis player, Melvin, as my coach, even though I'm a 4.0 player, because I wanted to improve my topspin on my strokes.
I hired a D1 tennis player, Melvin, as my coach, even though I'm a 4.0 player, because I wanted to improve my topspin on my strokes.
The money I invest in my skills is far more rewarding than spending it on rent.
I'm also exploring coaching in other areas, such as real estate, entrepreneurship, and dance/jiu-jitsu.
Prioritizing growth over comfort is the best decision you can make for yourself.
Happiness is a state
I never believed a person could live in a small Toyota Prius until I tried it myself.
This experience shifted my worldview.
There's a liberating feeling in realizing you don't need many possessions.
When I lived in a house, I often wasted time on social media because I didn't know what else to do. I would just lie in my apartment, doing nothing.
But since starting to live in a car, I've had to structure my time more efficiently. I go out, meet people, and take classes. Real relationships and connections are far superior to any imaginary world.
Happiness doesn't stem from living in a large mansion or owning a luxury car. It comes from forging real connections, challenging yourself, and growing.
Never lived in a car before? Give it a try.
Spend a night in your car and see how it feels!
Make your 20s the most adventurous years of your life. Grow and flourish!